bisexualbendy:

“I’ll do anything to protect my LGBT siblings!”

Then will you stop being an exclusionist? Cause every ace/aro person I know who’s LGBT by your standards feels pretty unsafe around exclusionists. Not to mention, you’re basically making it so we don’t feel safe talking about our actual orientations with the threat of being branded a “cishet invader” in the spaces we’re supposedly supposed to be safe from cisheteronormativity for a bit. And all of that is not even touching the subject of cis heteroromantic asexuals and cis aromantic heterosexuals, who are oppressed for deviating from cisheteronormativity, but I know you don’t believe they actually are so tbh even just getting you to understand how your bullshit is affecting the a-specs you claim to approve of would be at least an improvement.

Don’t make my bi trans ass have to prove I belong here just cause I’m aro and proud of all parts of my identity. You can stop doing that by just letting aces and aros exist in the same space as you and leaving us the fuck alone.

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