wholeheartedsuggestions:

things i really, really like:

  • unexpected smiles
  • random dogs i see in public
  • hugging someone you haven’t seen in forever
  • that deep breath i take when i go outside on a nice day
  • my best friend’s laugh
  • taking a nap that’s actually restful
  • getting a good picture of a sunset

ellidfics:

genderinvalidator420:

untitledunentitled:

istanbul1997:

things I’ve learned to say to boys:
-you’re not funny
-don’t talk to me like I’m dumb
-I probably know more about this than you do
-don’t fucking talk about her like that
-I’m not comfortable with this
-I don’t owe you anything
-you just repeated exactly what I said
-no

Still learning but getting there

I’ve said “don’t talk to her like that” idk how many times

“I already said that five minutes ago.”

theannoyedoniongirl:

texanredrose:

keena-kapu:

tragicwolves17:

keena-kapu:

whitestarrussian:

keena-kapu:

keena-kapu:

Do you ever hear someone say something about your field of interest that is wrong and you have to stop yourself from physically cringing but you gotta stay strong and cool cause you don’t wanna be ‘That NerdTM’?

there is no deep meaning to this, this is when I see people refering to Excalibur as “The Sword in The Stone”

Wait I though the sword in the stone is Excalibur. What is it then?

The Sword in the Stone is Caliburn, and was the way be became king. Excalibur was the sword given to him by the Lady of the Lake after he broke Caliburn fighting King Pellinore.

I have been educated today and I appreciate it

I did not expect everyone else to also like swords this much.

1) Thank you, Kap, for clearing up this misconception.

2) I am always down to be That Nerd™

I actually didn’t know The Sword in The Stone’s name. Thank you OP.

Things that are NOT selfish:

positivity-center:

Self-care is NOT
selfish.

Putting yourself
first is NOT selfish.

Doing what makes you
happy even though someone does not approve it is NOT selfish.

Respecting your own
time is NOT selfish.

Ending a toxic
relationship is NOT selfish.

Saying “no” is
NOT selfish.

Having some time for
yourself is NOT selfish.

Not being able to
help someone is NOT selfish.

Spending money on
yourself is NOT selfish.

Setting boundaries
is NOT selfish.

You are NOT selfish
for doing what’s best for you. It’s actually a healthy thing to
do. You are amazing and doing good things for yourself will never be
something bad.